I met a guy from an internet He still checks his dating profile site in March. We went out from about April until August. I must admit I did check the site on occasion to double check the profile was definitely not there. But after a few months into our relationship, I did a random check and his profile was visible again. But he seemed to be checking it only every few days. As when he was with me everything seemed fine, he was also mentioning moving in together and buying a house down the track.
So I was very confused. He did have issues, as his long-term partner had left him a year a go, and he had just finished the settlement and child support arrangements. Everything seemed good, except he was back on the dating site.
I emailed him and asked him why he was still on the site. I told him I was sad, hurt, disappointed, angry and taken for a ride. He was bewildered and disappointed.
As I had not been in touch for over a week, he presumed it was over between us, and he would probably be better off on his own. He was thinking of moving interstate anyway.
I emailed him again to try and explain, and indicated I was probably being too sensitive for my own good. That was 5 weeks ago. I feel sad because it broke so suddenly and it was all done via email. I know I should have asked him face to face, but it is hard.
Will I ever hear from him again? And what was going on with him? This guy is screwing with your mind. If he is not looking for a new He still checks his dating profile or keeping himself open to the possibility of meeting someone new, why is his profile still active?
The fact that he then lies about being on the site is ridiculous and this is where I feel that he is a bully and controlling. People like him challenge your truths and browbeat you into believing the falsehoods by making you feel bad about yourself. Technology means that these sites let other users know how active He still checks his dating profile person is on the dating site by letting you know how recently they have logged in. We all have a bit of baggage but when we wheel them out as something to excuse our behaviour or to keep us at a distance, it means that we are not good for a relationship.
Let me spell something out for you. You have every right to be annoyed. You chose not to speak to him for a week where others would have dumped his ass. This is more bully and control tactics. Why was he waiting for you to call him? If he felt that bad he could have picked up the phone.
He may sing a different tune but deep down he knows that he is in the wrong. He is playing silly buggers now by being the one in control of the contact and the best thing that you could do right now is sit on your hands and cease contact. If he wants to move, let him move. But you can get closure and own how you feel without him.
Never let somebody, man or woman, tell you that black is white when you know the score. The 10 Commandments of Breaking Up and Why do men blow hot and cold? This site has been so valuable to me. Finally I am able to understand years and years of behavior. I recently fell for the worst Mr. He was the man who sounded too good to be true. I met him on a dating site. Ivy league educated, Phd, works for hedge fund in New York, makes millions of dollars, sweet kind and sensitive.
I thought I had met my Prince Charming! He pursued me intently, expensive dinners He still checks his dating profile restaurants, 3 weekends in a row at his house in the Hamptons, expensive gifts. After about a month I started to really fall for him emotionally.
We had so many things in common.
A love of art, music, travelling to exotic places in the world, languages. I thought it was a dream come true.
I guess I tried my hardest. He went away He still checks his dating profile a business trip and when he came back the tables had turned. It was now no longer him chasing me, it was me trying to get him to spend more time with me. He worked long hours and his schedule He still checks his dating profile unpredictable. I began to feel that I never knew when I was going to see him next. I felt that I had 0 control in the relationship.
We always met on his terms, often a weekday late in the evening. I was so flexible and accomodating to his work schedule. From then on there were so many other clues that something was wrong. He preferred to communicate by text message or email, rarely answered the phone, He was always in control of when we would meet, usually at his place on a weekday.
I remember one time I went to his house and and when I kissed him when he opened the door, some make up got on his shirt. The next day I try calling, no response.
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I felt this man was not being honest with me. I was distraught, my self esteem has plummeted to the lowest of low, I feel lost and confused. But I feel like he has just raped me emotionally. It depends on the level of trust to me.
Figuring out what a guy is thinking or planning from her description is about as inaccurate as. You need to confront him. You are thinking that you are in an exclusive relationship, that you have begun to build the last relationship of your life.
Some apparently mature people consider dating a recreation in their life, rather than a search for a life-mate. I had a similar situation occur with a man I began dating last fall. When I confronted him about ithe lied and lied and lied again.
That was the beginning of one long year of hell, lies, cheating and abuse for me. I stayed with somone who continued to write to other women on line, even after he and I became exclusive. I caught him only because he was using my home computer to do it??? Why did I stay?