Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. So here's my situation. I just moved half way across the country last month. I meet this really cute gal, who is exactly what I feel, suits me. We hit it off right away and date number one goes super well. Touch barrier broke, great conversation, multiple pda kissing etc. We obviously keep talking and what not, we had to reschedule date 2 twice.
A week later both of our schedules me up and we go out again. Same thing it's amazing. We start getting more in depth and personal. Being new to a bigger city I feel like I'm on top of the world at moments. I think she is dating someone else the next few days we keep talking, and then we got talking a little more personal, I then ask if she is seeing anyone else. She was hesitant to respond, but did willingly.
She had mentioned that she was seeing someone else but they are both super busy for one another, which is why she accepted to go out with me. She did say that she plans on seeing that other person again as well. But told me that I've really impressed her and she has had so much fun with me.
Asked me if I was seeing anyone else.
Obviously no as I just moved, she said that I should go on a few dates as that's a lot of pressure on her if it doesn't work between us etc So one, where do I go from here. Two, if I start seeing someone else too, do I tell her? I've always kind of been a one woman man.
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Zombie Send a private message. Find a new "new girl". Since most dates don't go anywhere, being forced to compete against another guy just lowers the chance of it turning into a relationship even more. Don't get me wrong she's entitled to see other guys if you're not exclusive, but you're not obligated to continue dating her either. And honestly it sounds like she'd just go looking for another guy to add to her rotation even if the she did dump the guy she was seeing prior to you.
Don't waste your time and money on her. She might be fun, but if you're looking for a relationship or are likely to get emotionally attached, she's not for you. Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. However if you're hitting point of sleeping with the second girl, you should probably be cutting off contact with girl 1 so it's kinda moot.
Hierophant Send a private message. I am a one person at a time type too. I am sure you realize the way she behaves with you on a date is likely the same way she behaves with others on a date? You OK with that?
I I think she is dating someone else be And But she is going to be all kissy with her plan B option anyway? Hmm I expect more than that from a woman I'd consider having a relationship with. Were I you, I'd continue to explore my options in the new town - you are bound to meet more people and chances are some of them will have higher set of values than to swap spit with anyone who ask her out.
Edit - I think she is dating someone else get me wrong, different strokes for different folks and she is free to do as she pleases - but if you are a 'one woman kind of man' you are probably better off dating women who also share that philosophy - trust me, plenty of girls would appreciate your point of view on the matter! Edited on April 21, at Justnell Send a private message. Great advice, most likely there is someone woman out there who is looking for a guy like you. You've had fun with her.
You haven't had a convo about exclusivity and it seems not sure that you're not sleeping with her. I don't know why you need to jettison her. Why not keep dating? Isn't that what dating is - to get to know people you might be interested in?
I don't think you need to volunteer the info to her, but you shouldn't hide it either. If she asks, or it somehow comes up, then be honest.
IMO you'd be playing games to handle it like this: We're dating, we're not exclusive, she's dating others, I need to bail.
You'd be trying to protect yourself first and foremost, when you should be trying to enjoy life, first and foremost. Having said all that, it sounds like she might be using you to make the other guy jealous, so you're taking a chance.
Don't get too emotionally involved.
Try to just have fun and see what happens. The other guy might be playing her, as well. You need to go after what you want in life.
Don't give up at the first obstacle. This reeks of plots and plans and moves and counter moves. You seem to be an entertaining person capable of seeing what else is in town. See others while you can.
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IF you still feel the same way about her after a few dates with others, continue working to nail her down. But don't work hard to nail her down just so ten others can walk into your life and you have to start un-nailing her. There will be time for exclusive soon enough. MrRedwing Send a private message.
Thank you all for your responses. Definitely helps a lot.
I'm a small town guy living on the coast in a big city. You guys are right. Look up meetup in your area so you can get out and meet people.
Sometimes people get fixated on a person too soon. Not to mention, when she's out with that other guy, you're going to need something to do.
Burns Send a private message. From my past experience I think if you really like her you need to win her over. Be yourself and make her want you more.
How to do that is something only your will be able to pick up on. George Send a private message. Next date you go on make sure you let her know she should be treating you. Obviously not like that but bring it up.
Let her pay the next go round. I'm going to assume you paid both times but I could be wrong. You don't want to end up going out with someone who just likes to be taken out.